You're allowed to say no, and don't feel bad about offending a bro at a party because you don't owe them anything.
From a life lesson perspective what are some of the key points that you hope others can take away from your story 'Iron Boy' and even more so what is something that you hope you leave behind to your children that you hope they can apply to their own lives? What could be a better way to spend your weekend? So, if you like seeing girls dressed in purple and gold, you hit a jackpot.
If their info never got out there to their boyfriends and family and exposed as fake and treacherous females sucking stranger dick for money then they would have never cried victim.